Brandy

Benpaws · 02-22-2010, 10:59 AM

I lit a candle for Brandy today. This is a wonderful site and brings a moment of quiet contentment when you visit it and light a remembrance candle for your precious puppy.

Group *DCC* Candles - Light A Candle

Hugs,
Joanne

rockytola · 02-22-2010, 12:39 PM

I just lit one for Rocky! Look out for the upcoming book. I will let you know when it will be out.
Best
John

jeanettesavill · 02-23-2010, 07:21 AM

thank you that was really nice of you I am still struggling with my grief but I know that he is no longer in pain. its a derrible disease and have lost everyone and my best friend to it . but I must be strong now . I have two other dogs but its still hard as brandy was my first but for his memory i must be strong jeanette

Benpaws · 02-23-2010, 07:40 AM

Dear Jeanette,
This is the hardest part of the "cancer journey" when you must take the trip alone without your companion with you.
Everyone would like their best friend to just "go to sleep" and die peacefully from old age and since we had to watch our beloved companions slowly weaken from this terrible disease, makes the end very difficult indeed.
I so understand how you are feeling in these first days. Your heart feels as if it has been torn from you. As the days pass, you will move into different stages of grief and tears will flow, but memories of good times will also fill your head and your heart and even make you smile.
I hope you have a good support system around you and spend time with your other two dogs, because they are missing Brandy also and need you to be there for them. Visit your grandchildren if they are close by. Children always bring joy to one's heart.
I know there is a "Heaven" and Brandy is definitely there. I have faith and a strong belief and that got me through some very difficult days. There is someone much greater than I and I know in my heart I will see my Benny again.
Take care and come here if you need comfort and support during the months ahead. This is a "safe place " to come and cry and you are among FRIENDS!

Blessings,
Joanne & Shadow

alyson · 02-23-2010, 11:09 AM

Dear Jeanette,
Im so sorry for your lose, my prayers go out to you.
Alyson

TJandDante · 02-23-2010, 06:42 PM

We are here for you, you will miss Brandy terribly but eventually things you thank of and remember about Brandy will make you smile.
TJ

02-22-2010, 10:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
Benpaws Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Oakville, ON., CANADA Posts: 894	Brandy I lit a candle for Brandy today. This is a wonderful site and brings a moment of quiet contentment when you visit it and light a remembrance candle for your precious puppy. Group DCC Candles - Light A Candle Hugs, Joanne

02-22-2010, 12:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
rockytola Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 95	Candle I just lit one for Rocky! Look out for the upcoming book. I will let you know when it will be out. Best John

02-23-2010, 07:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
jeanettesavill Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: wales cwmbran Posts: 23	thank you that was really nice of you I am still struggling with my grief but I know that he is no longer in pain. its a derrible disease and have lost everyone and my best friend to it . but I must be strong now . I have two other dogs but its still hard as brandy was my first but for his memory i must be strong jeanette __________________ jeanette

02-23-2010, 07:40 AM	#4 (permalink)
Benpaws Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Oakville, ON., CANADA Posts: 894	Brandy Dear Jeanette, This is the hardest part of the "cancer journey" when you must take the trip alone without your companion with you. Everyone would like their best friend to just "go to sleep" and die peacefully from old age and since we had to watch our beloved companions slowly weaken from this terrible disease, makes the end very difficult indeed. I so understand how you are feeling in these first days. Your heart feels as if it has been torn from you. As the days pass, you will move into different stages of grief and tears will flow, but memories of good times will also fill your head and your heart and even make you smile. I hope you have a good support system around you and spend time with your other two dogs, because they are missing Brandy also and need you to be there for them. Visit your grandchildren if they are close by. Children always bring joy to one's heart. I know there is a "Heaven" and Brandy is definitely there. I have faith and a strong belief and that got me through some very difficult days. There is someone much greater than I and I know in my heart I will see my Benny again. Take care and come here if you need comfort and support during the months ahead. This is a "safe place " to come and cry and you are among FRIENDS! Blessings, Joanne & Shadow

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02-23-2010, 11:09 AM	#5 (permalink)
alyson Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: manchester, england Posts: 104	Dear Jeanette, Im so sorry for your lose, my prayers go out to you. Alyson

02-23-2010, 06:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
TJandDante Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 257	We are here for you, you will miss Brandy terribly but eventually things you thank of and remember about Brandy will make you smile. TJ