Hi Jim,
I understand and appreciate what you are having to come to terms with, having been there so many times myself. Yet, you may ask (as a lot of my friends do!) why do you keep getting dogs!? Those of us who 'play dogs' (showing, obedience, sports) tend to have more dogs in their lives - I'm no exception for I've always had atleast 2 Basenjis, although we averaged 6+ over the course of the last 35 years. Basenjis (an acquired taste) are not for the weak of heart because, they're smarter than we are. And, it's this intellect I find fascinating and one of the reasons I am addicted to the breed. Joanne said it best though - the unconditional love, companionship, unquestionable loyalty and devotion. God's love on this earth. America is a VERY busy place to live and work. Because of our technology, we, as a people, are becoming more and more isolated from each other. Dogs fill in the gaps and we feel connected to something who showers us with the qualities we need but don't get from our fellow humans. We are a social society, much like dog packs, which compliments the relationship we have with our dogs. Dogs fit nicely into our social hierarchy. Take it from me, never feel guilty about welcoming another fuzzy soul into your life. Adding Gracie to the pack was one of the smartest things I did this year! Get another puppy and let the love you have for Dasha infuse this new life. God made us this way - able to share our love over and over again. Cande, Connor, Promise and of course, Gracie.
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